I’m a mum of 2 (7 and 2 years) and am planing to separate from my husband for 2 years (been together 12)
It’s my decision to separate after trying couples counselling for 10 months last year and a few other things happening that can’t be rectified.
we currently live in a council property which he pays for, I’m a stay at home mum and don’t have any earnings or savings as he covers everything.
He has told me he doesn’t want to leave and that as I am the one who wants to finish things I should be the one who goes and he will look after the children etc. He’s been very spiteful and not understanding of my thoughts or feelings and what I think is right for our kids.
It must be difficult as he wants to work on the relationship but it’s been over for a while for me and I don’t see us working things out. Too much has happened that I can’t get over
I can’t leave, I have nowhere to go, no money to rent or live where as he earns over £50,000 a year. I’m not sure what to do.