Long term sickness
19 October 2018 at 10:07 pm #17009
Hi. I am hoping to get some advice.
I have been single mum for 12 years now. I have two boys. I have worked for the same company for 12 years doing 30 hours per week. In July this year I started suffering from heath problems such as extreme dizziness, off balance feeling, problems with vision and brain fog. I stared getting anxiety attacks whilst driving to and back from work and eventually I got taken to hospital by ambulance from the motorway cause I was unable to drive. I have been signed off work since then. Unfortunately doctors don’t seem to treat my symptoms seriously. I have seen ENT to rule out inner ear problems. Then I went to an optician. They don’t want to refer me to MRI or offer any other treatment. Every day USA struggle for me. I’m dizzy and weak all the time. I can’t take my boys to school because I can’t drive. Shopping and cooking are a big challenge. My boys help me a lot but its really hard cause my family depends on me and I barely function. I’m worried about work. They are not helpful at all. It’s a big company and they have strict sickness policy biy offer no support. They stopped paying me so I’m on statutory sick pay only now. My housing benefit has been increased a bit due to lower income but that’s it and I’m worried I will struggle to pay my rent, bills, food. Do you know if I can apply for any support in my situation? Should my company offer me any support? How else can I demand treatment from my doctor? I will be grateful for any advice.19 October 2018 at 11:09 pm #17012
Hi Shelly. I had some similar symptoms to you a couple years ago. I went to the doctor several times and in the end saw a consultant and had an MRI with nothing sinister going on. That took a while to happen though and my symptoms lessened by the time I had it. Do you get good days or are your symptoms continuous?23 October 2018 at 3:16 pm #17129
Hi there Shelley78,
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Poppy at Gingerbread23 October 2018 at 3:47 pm #17138
I get better days but not many. I feel better maybe 1 day a week and then the symptoms return. I’m now being referred to a neurologist. Thank you for your reply. I hope to get the diagnosis and treatment soon.23 October 2018 at 4:38 pm #17143
You’re welcome. Do you have friends and family for support and to talk to about it?23 October 2018 at 11:52 pm #17159
I also suffer from a chronic illness so I can completely relate. I’m getting PIP benefit which is helpful at the moment and am looking for other benefits which are supposed to be available to us. I will post here as soon as I find out more.
Stay strong 🙂27 October 2018 at 7:34 pm #17261
I have similar problem and beat it with low gi diet (NO SUGAR, also in all products) already 4 years, constantly on supplements and that works. There are many good books, dr Axe site is good. one must read a lot in order to learn. One thing is a problem only – good food costs, supplements, even bought in bulk – too ./ 🙂 Best!!