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    Costaepic
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    Hi, I’m still struggling to cope with what’s happened, I have now been a single parent for just over a year now, a year ago we were just like any other family having lovely holidays, we were both working, and then one early morning we had a knock on our door it was the police with a search warrant to search our house for laptops Mbl phones and other stuff, they arrested my husband for taking images of our daughter and putting them on line, he was charged and sentenced to prison, me&my daughter lives were destroyed, me&my daughter still can’t belive something like this could happen to us, we have no family close to us I am unable to work now due to ill health, it would be lovely to chat to someone and know we will get through this.

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    Sherima
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    I am really sorry for you all. I can’t believe someone would do this to the people they love  Where do you live?

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    Costaepic
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    Hi, it still hurts so much,we are trying to move on as much as we can  we live in Berkshire

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    Sherima
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    That’s a shame we r in london  .I’m really sorry I always tell people  to focus on themselves and child. If you need to have a good old cry do it when she’s at school . Have you thought about counselling? Is his family supportive?

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    Costaepic
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    We have both had counselling, my daughter still receiving counselling, his family are still in denial and don’t want to belive it happened, he’s their only child, we do still have upset days but i said our hearts are slowly mending

    #19587 Report

    Sherima
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    Thats good . Made any plans for the new year? I am trying to be more healthy. Saying that I started off this morning eating healthy but I had 2 buttered scones today. I’ve made a spinach smoothy for later this evening.

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    Costaepic
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    We are hoping to move nearer to my family in Dorset, which will be a fresh start for both off us, hope you get all well with your healthy plan thank you for chatting with me 🙂

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    Sherima
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    Dorset is lovely.  It’s best to be with people who care about you. I wanted to.move but stay because of my sister.  We r not really close but she does come to my need when I ask her. She made Xmas really special for my daughter last year.

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    MBMG
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    Omg, I don’t get how people can do things like this to their loved ones. I cannot imagine how you feel. It’s hundred times worse than cheating. I’m so sorry I’m just shocked and my heart is breaking for you and your daughter. I wish I was closer to you (I’m in Bedfordshire). Please feel free to message me if you need someone to chat to. Xx

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    Kathymumofone
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    Costaepic, you sound very brave. Your ex has destroyed his life but you and your daughter still have yours. You can and will, I am absolutely sure, put this behind you.

    I live in Berkshire too. I like it because there are lots of places here that make a bad day seem better. I assume your daughter is little. What sort of things are her favourite days out?

    #19617 Report

    Costaepic
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    Aww Thank you, thank you all for your kind words, we like day trips out, LEGOLAND is her favourite I try to keep things as normal as possible, hope you all have a lovely weekend

    #19730 Report

    Hi Costaepic

    Justine, the moderator here.  Its good to see you reaching out to other parents on the forum.  Hopefully you will all be able to make some useful connections with each other.  I have got some signposting that I would like to forward you.  Just so you are aware, I will be sending you an email which will contain this information.

    Kind regards

    Justine

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