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    Lucosmurf
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    <span style=”color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;”>Last week my partner of 14 years told me he doesn’t feel the same about me anymore and he’s met someone else. He said he’s experiencing something called limerence, which causes infatuation and obsession with someone, and as far as I know it’s just a form of love.</span><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><span style=”color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;”>They became penpals in March and have been talking online and have since become extremely close (his words). He hid this from me for months and I just thought he was depressed. She lives in America and is coming over in a few weeks to see if they feel the same in person. It is tearing me apart and I’m trying to get head around this.</span><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><span style=”color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;”>We have separated and I’ve been at my Mum’s for the last week and just come home today, he is making arrangements to stay elsewhere now.</span><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><span style=”color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;”>I am absolutely devastated to say the least. We have a beautiful 2 year old boy who is keeping me sane.</span><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><span style=”color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;”>Just wondering if anyone has been through similar?</span><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><br style=”margin: 0px; padding: 0px; outline: none; box-sizing: border-box; color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;” /><span style=”color: #000000; font-family: arial, verdana; font-size: 14px; text-align: start; background-color: #fcfcfc;”>Thanks</span>

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