I am a recent graduate currently employed and not earning alot to keep me afloat. I have a child who now 6, was born 2013 from a mother that I was not in no relationship with prior to his birth and its gone from being tensed to being very toxic.
During my child’s early years, I was cut out of being on birth certificate but had the cms take total liberties when they started taking money out my pay in 2016 to current day. So not having no PR, I was forced to pay and even when I would have my child, I would find myself spending so much more on food clothing and stationery educational matieral as his mother did not provide me with any of this stuff when she would occasionally bring him round unprepared because she cannot handle him.
She now has a other child, 3 years old, partner gives her money, she works for uber and is even now taking Money directly from me that I pay her every fortnite.
I really need help and advice, I’m being taken for a joyride every time I have my child who I am paying 200 per Month for. He has no stability. His mother acts like she neglects him and I am now getting really angry that I am still spending for him on top of 200 and I only have one child which is him.