Kids access dilemma

[Singlemumtotwo]

Hi all

My youngest is 1 and his dad is severly disabled and cannot do anything for himself and got care round the clock. We have hit rockbottom now around visitations. He now demands to see son on his own but the carer who i looking after him have taken previously anotger kid to her own house and i dont feel safe to leave my son with them two. How much right do i have to ask for different carer on visitation days?

I am at my wits end now as i have tried everything to resolve issues and so baby can see his dad, but he point blankly refusing to see him

[Singlemumtotwo]

I do feel that taking child to your own home whilst on shift it is safeguarding issue, i have reported it but the agency wont do anything as babys dad is great confuser. About DBS i know she has for adults but dont think she has one for children as tge company works with vulnerable adults not children

I have offered to have family member instead but havent heard anything from him.

I really loosing my will to keep trying to be honest. Just feel like my baby will loose out on seeing his dad and dont see how it will work out.

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