Hi all
Newly separated Dad of a 2yo.
Long story but found out the ex had cheated on me just after going back to work from maternity leave, kept it a secret for over a year and then came out with it one evening! Further conversations revealed that she had been discussing what would happen when single with the guy for over a year and she spoke to him every day since she was pregnant with our IVF child.
I am absolutely at rock bottom, as per some other posts on here, it would appear that my social life was centred around her and I would look after our son while she was “running” in a club with the new guy. Which she is still doing while passing our son to someone else to look after when I don’t have him.
Currently sharing time with son on a 3-4-4-3 basis with alternative Saturday nights etc. I will never get used to giving him up and not seeing him for half the week!
Have to admit I am very bitter towards it all, but having to stay strong for my son and accept that what she does with him on “her” days is up to her.
Anyway, thought I would join up to say Hi! Just looking to find some adult conversation really!