Two Children, 10 & 13. Just got out of abusive thirteen year relationship, stayed in all the time, feel lonely and miss simple conversation with people my own age. I never go out in evening, don’t socialize, and feel nervous at the thought of meeting new people, although I can’t see that situation presenting itself in the near future.
So you are really in the early stages then eh. First thing to remember, is it is not a sign of weakness for a man to admit he is stuggling etc. I am 15 months down the line from my separation and as everyone says, time is a great healer and it really is.
I have been there and felt all the emotions I am sure you are feeling. I have lost contact with many people and have had a very osolated time but it does work itself out in the end.
I did have a time for 4 or 5 months where I lost my job aswell so was at home all that time dwelling on things which I am sure happens to you too.