hi all been separated from my H for 6mths now but recently he called the police on me as a domestic for me threatening him. Obviously I havent, I just gone 2c him about missed payments for our business. Anyway apart from his shouting abuse infront of customers calling me (dirty ****) etc I didn’t scream back instead I recorded everything he said like I have in the past. The fact is prior 2 when I left the mental abuse was bad 2 the point I was very sucidical. I never mentioned this 2 anyone as I was scared of him as he had tired to hit me a few times and being Asian all about keeping it within than others knowing.
After trying a couple of attempts, it came 2 me to leave for my boys sake and I did.
But the abuse after doesn’t stop he still calls me names I would never of thought & try’s to mess my kids heads up and trying to get them to side with him. I have mediation on 21st my 2nd meeting with him being present. I’m dreading it as I’m the bad mother for stopping contact with him on the basis all I want is my boys being supervised when there with him than he being in the shop downstairs and then upstairs in the flat left to there own devices.
Hi, there is a point in reporting abuse because there will be a trail/log of incidents (evidence that you are trying to keep yourself and your children safe). I hope the mediation appointment goes to plan for you. Also, go prepared. I have found writing down what reasonable outcomes I would like from the meetings have been helpful. In other words, what would you like to achieve from the meeting, what will make you feel better about this whole situation?