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    Joparky
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    My husband of eighteen years left yesterday. We had been drifting apart for a while when I think back but I was so consumed with grief from my mum dying. I’m distraught- I love him so much and can’t imagine life without him. I have two children-14 and 12.

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    Findingmyway4
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    You have my sympathy, my wife and I separated in July after almost 20 years, we have 2 children 10 and 15,  we also had drifted apart – I think pressures of work, raising a family and bills etc gets in the way. I have found it a real shock too as I thought we were forever though I probably buried myself in work  – I have had several sessions with a Counsellor who has helped me come to terms that its not all my fault.

    I’d recommend Relate as I have managed to get some form of understanding discussing this with them.

     

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    AnotherStatistic
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    I can sympathise. My wife has told me she wants to end the marriage and we have now started the process of divorce. I’m a dedicated family man and have done nothing wrong – she’s simply just decided that family life is not for her after 10 years of marriage and 2 kids. It hurts more when there doesn’t seem to be a real reason doesn’t it?

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    Joparky
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    Thanks guys. It’s just so raw at the moment. He’s my soulmate and I love him so I know it will take time to get my head around this. Just trying my best to get through the days, which are really hard.

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