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    My husband left me before Xmas said he’d nothing in common with me anymore and that I was a terrible wife. I know that this isn’t strictly true and it was all an excuse to leave. He’s in the army and used to come home at weekends when he didn’t have commitments!!

    I had received a strange message September  last year about my husband but didn’t really think anything of it as he was posted around this time. Someone has since told me they have seen him with a woman who works for the army with a bit of a reputation and she’s approximately 6/7 months pregnant.  So sounds like he’s in a right mess with everything but only has himself to blame. No doubt I will get blamed for this.

    This of course is leaving me extremely ill with worry with what’s going to happen to our house and our 4 year old son. At the moment he’s just leaving everything to me and burying his head in the sand. He also has a 9 year old from a previous marriage who lives in the Midlands area but he has little contact with him and is an awful father to him blaming the fact he’s in the army and can’t see him even though he can travel down and spend the weekend with this pregnant woman.

    Sorry I’m just in a mess and trying to process everything that’s going on and having abit of a sound off!!

    Anyone going through anything similar?


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    Yes Im in the process of seeing a solicitor about the finances etc.

    it is our own home which he is literally paying half the mortgage and abit towards our son but he just doesn’t seem to care as he says we’re no longer his problem! It’s absolutely heartbreaking.

    He doesn’t know I know about this other woman, she’s also not from the UK so he will have a shock when I finally let the cat out the bag but need to protect myself and our son.

    Thank you for your support just feel so low that someone you thought you were going to spend your whole life with can do this. 🙁


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