I’m so frightened
4 May 2019 at 9:58 am #24428
Abp09 you did better than me I just couldn’t face cooking so was school dinners or ‘freezer surprise’ a lot of the time for my DD 😆
SingleT will do, just got to get the consent order passed & solicitor will then be able to apply for the absolute (not sure on timescales for the former but she won’t do the latter until it’s sorted or 6 wks whichever!) & then it will be over. Taking DD for a pre new home Ikea visit 2 mo ‘window shopping’ 🙂
x4 May 2019 at 10:27 am #24430
I have just laughed out loud at freezer surprise 😂 sorry but my son loves those teas when I want to defrost the freezer.
I’m sorry for what we’re all going through but nice we can help, and have a giggle st times. I will also be doing ikea when we move. I’ve promised my son a new bed. Isn’t it illegal to just window shop in that place?4 May 2019 at 10:32 am #24431
Glad you knew what I meant about those dinners sometimes my friends look at me as though I have lost the plot when I say it!
Have just said to my mums next door neighbour perhaps I should leave my cards at home 2 mo and just take a tenner with me! Trying not to jinx house sale by buying stuff yet but fancied a trip out x4 May 2019 at 1:07 pm #24433
Then that sounds like a good plan! As soon as you get the good news on Tuesday you can go back and buy x4 May 2019 at 1:27 pm #24434
I’ve done my online shop and ordered lots bits for the freezer.
I felt a bit stronger this morning and sorted out a few bits but I’ve crumbled again. I keep imaging him with her going to lovely places he never took me. Xxx4 May 2019 at 1:36 pm #24435
I need go do an online shop!
I used to do that. Although my ex took her to places we’d been! It’s amazing how quickly we forget all their annoying habits. Try and think of a few, then remember she’ll have to deal with them.
Mine included snoring and man flu. He would literally collapse for days if he sneezed twice! And now that’s her problem.
but if you need to crumble that’s ok too. Just don’t message him x4 May 2019 at 1:46 pm #24436
I have been there, you feel that the only world you knew falls apart. Take care of yourself, talk as much as you can with friends or talking therapies if that can help. You and your kids are a team now, They will be your strength and what makes you keep going. Don’t overload yourself with work, Hoover can wait. Fish fingers and Pizza are allowed if you had a bad day and don’t feel like cooking. In my case the gym helped me, cause I was turning into an emotional drunk mess. I came out of it. So anything from yoga to hiit can help release anger pain and stress and makes you feel real good about yourself. Remember you are good and you can do this !!4 May 2019 at 1:54 pm #24437
That’s true, he was very annoying and often grumpy. Just wait until she has to clean the loo after him 😉
I really need to stop messaging him. I managed to hold off all night but have text him several times today. 🤦♀️
I like the idea that me and the kids are a team and every so often I look forward to things we will do without him stressing out.
I used to swim a lot I might dust if my costume.4 May 2019 at 2:40 pm #24438
Abp09 glad you are feeling brighter.. yes dust off swim costume I do a mile tues & thurs morn at 7am and sometimes Sun tho not so early.. it’s hard work getting up but feel much better when I have done & my baby belly does seem to be receding 🤣
I have seen photos on her fb page of a place we used to go & that hurt I won’t ever be able to go there again, it took me 5 months to go back in a local bar we used to go.
I keep saying to me and youngest DD that we are a team.. onwards & upwards .. Hang in there x