My husband left me 4 weeks ago following a 2 month messaging relationship with another woman (who chased him knowing he was married with two small children). They have now taken their relationship further and I am devasted at being told he doesn’t love me anymore, which is my fault apparently and he loves her. He is now totally devoid of emotions and heartless (although I’m sure not to her). Our family and friends are in total shock as everything about this situation is so out of character for him and they could see how happy we were (until she came along).
I cannot get past the overwhelming need for them not to last, and for him to look at me again and realise he walked away from the best thing in his life, without even trying to make us work, and regret it. I know it probably won’t happen. And it won’t change our split. But I feel desperate for this for myself and my healing, and for the other woman not to be in my kids life’s knowing she never gave them a second thought when she messaged him.