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    HK9437
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    I’ve not posted in a while, things started looking up, I won my case in court against medical negligence & walked away with enough to buy a house, I gave my childs mum a cut to help sort herself out basically.. before doing this i asked her if she wanted to move away, ill go whereever she says, but she said no stay here.. obviously we have split way before this.. since then i obviously got a house finally new job had my child 50/50, however she kept mentioning moving away with him.. like 200mile away obviously i wasnt happy atall i mean ive been there his whole life & intend to be still, im not meaning to sound selfish & i try to see where shes coming from saying he dont see his family down there much she isnt happy.. but surely taking him away from his dad isnt the right choice either.. i’d honestly buy her a car & pay for her travel whenever she goes down if it meant him staying here, ive never been against her going down.. id help whenever however i can but now ive forced her up here blackmailed her to stay & im not potraiting myself as perfect godforbid nobody is but i just want my son.. but now shes gone to mediation or something & im genuinely empty inside I never wanted to fight over him or subject him to the legal world especially when he his ours.. i just dont know what to do anymore what to say where to go who to trust… im genuinely numb it seems to just be words as it stands but with that alone i cant see a tomorrow for myself really dont feel strong enough to do this or deal with it if it progresses.. i’m well aware theirs legal crap i can do .. dont really want to think about it to be honest I guess i just want someome to talk too.. feel so numb .. just words & im resorted to tears for even folding his clothes.. sounds pathetic just dont know what else to say

    #48545 Report

    steve3334
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    Hi there,

    sorry to hear what your going through. That is a scenario a lot of single dads are dreading, kids being moved miles away. you could go through court to prevent her, but I think they will just allow it. other option is to move closer to wherever she intends to move to.

    #48546 Report

    HK9437
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    Litterally stuck what i had on this house & mortgaged the rest after giving her the option of moving.. not as in “you can because in saying you can” but basically as in ive got the money to do whatever so you decide & ill go.. genuinely can understand why Male suicide is on the uprise .. ive had him 50/50 no matter what, genuinely cant keep going im nothing more then broken

    #48547 Report

    Hi there HK9437

    Thank you for posting on our forum.  I have read through your messages today and I hope the experiences of other single parents will be of support to you.  Please continue to chat with them.  In the meantime I will be sending you a private message with some signposting options.

    Kind regards, Justine

    #48548 Report

    steve3334
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    hi,

    how old is your child?

    #48549 Report

    HK9437
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    Hi, 2 mate

    #49004 Report

    Gummibear123
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    Hi.

    I just read your post again and I hope things are looking up a bit….at all.Hope you’re ok.

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