I dont know what to do? For me and my children

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    Bluemama21
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    My husband came out as bi on the weekend and we have since had a chat about separating which is heartbreaking.  We have 2 children 10 and 11.

    He has not left and wants to take it slow. So we are living all together adovding each other. I’m worried the kids r going to pick up that something is wrong soon.

    I just dont know what to do for the best

    Any advice would be grateful

    #47759 Report

    warwickshire1
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    The decent thing for him to do now he has told u he is bi is leave . You cant live in a home avoiding each other with a 10 and 11 year old who will pick up on the animosity between yourselves. Remember there will also be potentially adult discussions that they may overhear and you certainly dont want them knowing just yet why you are separating

    #47762 Report

    Bluemama21
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    Your right.

    I worry what to do next. I never thought I’d be in this position.

    I feel I need to be stronger but I’m just in shock

    #47767 Report

    warwickshire1
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    I imagine it must be a huge shock and cant imagine how you feel during such an awful time at moment

    #47768 Report

    Bluemama21
    Participant

    Covid isnt making it any easier.

    Kids at home and I’m a keyworker so have to go in. And if he leaves no one will be home as hes works from home.

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