hi, long story very short, my husband and I seperated March this year after him moving out in October he needed some space. His decision I fought and fought against it but what could I do. I found a lot of lies and deciet out (no cheating) through from April last year until Christmas.
Basically he has no contact with the kids 14 13 and 9. Hasnt seen or contacted them (other than money for birthdays sent to banks) for 22 weeks. Has only contacted me due to his grandmlther passing away. Wont discuss anything, wont discuss seeing the kids, or helping out or anythjng at all to do with us or the situation. Divorce hasn’t been mentioned (altho hes told his friends we are in divorce process which we are not at all) i just do not know what to do.
How am I meant to fight for him to have a relationship with his children when he simply will not communicate.??
He pays every month without fail yet i dont want to ask him for anything extra for extras like school uniforms etc as I just dont know what I should be expecting from him.