Hi,
Can my husband, who i am separated from, arrange visitation with our 13 year old son and not arrange it with me ?
And do I just have to agree with this?
We have been separated over 2 years due to his drinking and Domestic violence. I left with our children, as a last resort hoping he would sort his drinking out. We were always going back. I left to save my marriage not end it.
Up until August 2020, I thought we were still working it out. Obviously I was wrong, and he asked for a divorce, which I did not want. He has now told me he doesn’t want anything to do with me.
I recieve abusive text messages from him when he is drinking, and he tells me he doesn’t want anything to do with me or our kids. We have 4 children together, but 3 of them are in their 20’s. He doesn’t really support us financially either. But then he will message or phone our 13 year old and arrange with him when he sees him.
Can he do this and do I just have to agree with this ?
I hope I’m making sense.
Any advice would be great
Thank you x