Hi
can anyone give me some tips on how to cope with thoughts of absent father.
my son is 5 weeks old and dad knows about him but has not been in contact since.
I don’t know if he wants contact (he has said he doesn’t at the moment) but when? It’s making me anxious about how I will feel after not being around for 10 months and offered no support or help.
i think of him every day..
how can he not be wanting to help? He said because of how I am? But I’m really not a bad person?
I still don’t understand how he has left me and not offered help.
I am loving being a mum and have coped perfectly without him, everyone I know has helped and supported but not one day goes by without him in my thoughts, anger, or thoughts we could have been together through this.
but it doesn’t get any clearer as I don’t know what he is going to do next?
what do I do?
thank you