How do you move on?! Struggling

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    Red05
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    So it’s always been a challenging relationship in so much as my husband is forces.
    when I fell I really fell for him and we were married after 3 years despite him never really proposing.
    my little girl came the following year who was prem and hard work. I’ve struggled with PND and never really had the support emotionally. In bits I did and he would say one thing but act another particularly when away. He lives away Monday to Friday.
    last year he said he didn’t love me but agreed to try and make it work. He goes from hot and cold continually.
    ive know I can’t live like this it’s destroyed my self esteem and who I am – I’m consumed by it.
    so I’ve decided I’ll be asking him to leave but the thought of it fills me with dread I’m literally heartbroken.

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    JulieM8tley
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    It took me almost 2 years to get the courage to leave my ex. It was very hard, and scary when I first did it. But I’m certainly better off for it.

    you need to look after yourself and do what feels right for you.

    You will most definitely feel better than you do now, and you will get stronger again.

    time will heal, and you will find you again

    and then happiness will follow x

     

     

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    Red05
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    Thank you so much for taking the time to post.
    I am new to all of this – including online forums but actually it’s really helped! I’m used to being the helper and picking people up in my profession it’s slightly alien thinking about me xx

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