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    13y ago I met my partner online I was a single mum  on benefits and in a council house with 3 kids one was fully disabled in a wheelchair a year later she passed away and I decided to move to his hometown, to start fresh , my eldest left and went back to our hometown as soon as he could.. 9 years this December me and my partner had our daughter , this is when I noticed he does nothing only cares for himself does nothing for his family, football mad goes to home and away again even when we had no money.. if I said anything he would shout and storm out and nothing would be sorted I have wrote a few letter in the pst and he followed and did change but again went back to normal .. we had another baby 2 and half y ago but still hasn’t changed , made me get a job when my childminding went down the plug , but I like my job and doing my level 2 childcare so I can make money for my kids.i have nowhere to go but I want to leave I don’t money for 1st month rend or deposit my name is on the council houses but you have to bid. But I know me and the kids would be happier if he wasn’t here. With him putting football 1st and working nights we don’t see him when he is home he expects to not look after his own children and me and my older daughter do everything, but if I asked him to leave  he wouldn’t he would say I need him or even say he change. Think moving back to council house will be the best, just don’t know how to move quicker

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    You definitely need to get out of that relationship. It doesn’t sound healthy. I do feel for you….

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    Hi @covgalxxx,  I think you’ll find these information pages useful Separating – Gingerbread.  Please do also call our helpline if you need to talk it through.  Helpline – Gingerbread

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