I am new here …. my husband left 4 weeks ago tomorrow. We have been together 16 years married 14 and have 3 children 7,11 and 13. My ex has suspect mental health issues and a suspected breakdown of some sort . He literally just didn’t come home from work. My boys have just had their birthdays (2 yrs 6 days apart) and it’s been the hardest two weeks of my life.
My hubby has frozen our bank accounts which cancelled our dds including mortgage, gas, electric… well everything …. he won’t talk to me or at least when he does he just makes demands, talks over me, shouts and swears at me says he cant look at me, he hates me and sends me horrendous abusive text messages. I don’t even know what I’ve done 😢
I have recently started the ball rolling re mediation however the mental health team have suggested I wait a while longer but I hate this feeling of limbo. I don’t even know if our relationship is over or if it is mental health and he’ll recover or not… but if he does recover I’m not sure I can ..
He took our caravan to live in and won’t tell me where he is even staying…. my children aren’t coping at all esp my youngest he’s so angry and aggressive since daddy left … just feel lost