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    Patch222
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    I’m a single mom of a gorgeous 4 year old little girl she’s never had much to do with her dad due to drugs and drinking and he generally doesn’t care about her I’ve been really careful about what I’ve told her about him and when she was younger and asked me where’s my daddy I used to say it’s ok because you have wonderful grandads and uncles and that worked but not she’s at school and see other kids with there dads and gets upset that her daddy doesn’t come get her like her friends I guess what I’m asking is how do I explain to a 4 year old that her dad doesn’t care about her that he chooses drugs and drink over her I really need help guys thanks x

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    warwickshire1
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    I would try and contact her dad and see if he would like to start having an active role in his daughters life. Explain that she is wondering where her dad is and why hes not been to see her.

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    Patch222
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    I’ve always left the door open but I want to make sure that he is clean I will not have her in danger I’m worried that if I let him see her and he lets her down again she’s older now and I don’t want her to get hurt we were never together it was a one off thing as I was told having children wasn’t a possibility when I told him I was pregnant he said it wasn’t his so didn’t want to know I’ve brought her up I pay for her I do everything for her and don’t really want or need him in her life but for her sake she needs answers of why he can’t be bothered with her x

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