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    Ataloss42
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    Help! I’m going out of my mind my ex has refused to bring the children home last Friday their last day of school he has blocked me on their phones so I can’t what’s app or speak to them

    I have a court order for residency he sees them every Wednesday and every other weekend he has made countless allegations over the years which the school have ignored

    he states that I’m mental and can’t look after them

    I’m now facing Xmas completely alone

    i have applied to the court C79 enforcement firm but this could take a month

    god knows what he’s told them about me we talk every single day so they must be worried about me

    #64105 Report

    Gemma37
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    Call the police now.

    #64106 Report

    Ataloss42
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    I have they said unless I think they are in serious danger there is nothing they can do and it has to go to court

    #64107 Report

    Ataloss42
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    Once the schools re open I know I’ll have a chance to communicate with them as the teachers are aware of the their dad and how he minipulates them

    but that not til 5th Jan !

    #64114 Report

    Andrew uk
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    Call the police. Tell them they are in danger and at potental risk of harm. Call 999.

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    Andrew uk
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    Call the emergency social services number.

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    Andrew uk
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    Take out a Prohibited Steps Order.

    #64122 Report

    sirtobi
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    Sorry to  hear you are in the same predicament. But that is unfortunately what happens, when the courts are closed during Christmas. His mother has also not returned our son after his visit on Wednesday and hid him from me, even though there is a court order in place like yours. I managed to get a police officer to speak to our son after he texted me, I am held against my will. But he concluded, there is no immediate danger and I have to wait until courts reopen. He told me I am wasting police time and at least I am scoring points for the court battle. Cynic but honest. That is what it is, and there is nothing to do but wait and hope the damage done is not too severe.

    #64139 Report

    steve3334
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    hi,

    must be a very tough time for you. if ex has blocked you and totally unreasonable, then unfortunately I think all you can do is wait on your court hearing for enforcement. I don’t think it will go very well for your ex.

    #64145 Report

    sirtobi
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    hello steve,

    the problem is not so much, how it impacts on me, but how the child’s trust is impacted. Our son was wary of his mother not allowing him back, and I assured him, he will be fine. That obviously was not what has happened. So with this action she has damaged his trust in herself, as the trust he has in me to protect him from her actions. So what I need the court for, is to restore my power to protect our child from the damage she does to our, our son’s and mine, relation. She must not be rewarded for damaging the child’s relation with the other parent. He is confused and unhappy, and his mother is riding roughshod with his emotional wellbeing. She is a narcissist beyond repair, and that is what we are dealing with.

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