I have a beautiful 19 month old daughter. I separated from her father when she was 6 months. We had an informal rota between September 2018 and February 2018, during this period he didn’t turn up on 34 occasions to collect her! I then went through mediation, where we agreed he would have her every Thursday for 2.5 hours and every other weekend 4 hours per day. It seemed to work for a while but during June – August he didn’t turn up 6 times! His reasons being that he was too hungover/drunk. I know that he takes drugs, and I know that he also sells them. In the past I have found cannabis on my daughters changing mat. I have currently stopped him from seeing my daughter. But what are my rights? I don’t know what I can do. He was also emotionally abusive when we were together and I feel he is also has very aggressive. My daughter is so happy with me & I’m lucky enough to have such a supportive family. But I just don’t want her anywhere near him or his family. Can someone please give me some advice?
I’m sorry that I can’t give any advice as I don’t know the answers to your questions. But I wanted to say hi and I completely relate to your wanting to safe guard your child. I feel the same way about my kids, their well-being and safety comes before anything else.
i hope someone else can give you the advice you need.