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    JEG
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    Help! Me and Husband been separated now 6 months – he left family home Oct 18 following marriage breakdown. I found out 3 yrs ago he was sexually abusing my sister who worked for our company. I decided to stay put and work through marriage at the time but unfortunately through his aggressive angry volatile behavior towards me and my children which was indeed mentally abusive I came to the point where I couldn’t go on. We are now going through early stages of divorce but he’s announced he’s moving back into our home this weekend until the house is sold!!!  Which could be months!! He said he’s coming back because he wants to and he can because it’s HIS house and because he misses the children! I’m in utter turmoil – I’d started to really recover and find myself again, regaining my confidence and the children are settled. I now can’t sleep again, can’t think straight and my stomach is churning at the thought of what I see is a Monster coming back and starting up all those old feelings again. Home had become my safe space and sanctuary.  Advice please????

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    Ramblinjon
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    Hi, you must be going out of your mind, these 2 organisations can help:

    Womans Aid 0808 2000 247

    National Domestic Violence helpline for support on 0808 2000 247.

    Mark

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    JEG
    Participant

    Hi Ramblinjon Yes I feel like I am! Thanks for advice and helpline no’s.

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    Ramblinjon
    Participant

    Your welcome.

    It might be an idea to change your username as this is an open forum which can be found easily on Google so your email address is available to anyone including your ex.

    Hope you get things sorted.

    Mark

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    JEG
    Participant

    Ok thanks will do.

    Jsyne

    #24664 Report

    Hi JEG

    I’m one of the moderators here.  I’m glad you have been given some contact details of organisations already.  I will be sending you a private message to see if there is anything else we can offer you.

    Thanks, Justine

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