Help! Ex sending the kids to school with no lunch.

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    Schubert
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    Jessica,

    STOP THIS RIGHT NOW.

    Your’e not listening and you’re being really rude.

    Rob, please correct me if I’m wrong but your 11 year old is at Secondary School and they have a cashless payment system, Parentpay? We have the same here.

    Your’e concerned that your child from time to time is not being given access to food by mum neither packed lunch or school dinners?

    You seem to have a plan in place and are moving forward with that.

    Likewise down here, at the moment it seems that it’s only High schools and not Primary which have the cashless system.

    Jessica, quite frankly I find your behaviour really aggressive and have reported it already.

    We’re supposed to support one another on this forum. I’m really disappointed

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    EmmaJ84
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    My children are at primary school and they use parent pay

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    Anonymous

    Good. Yes. ParentPay avoids some of the issues, but not all of them.

    Doesn’t change the fact that there may be other issues involved which need to be ruled out.

    I am in support, actually, Schubert, it is a democratic system. So you have the perfect right to ‘report’ me as I do you.

    I’m pointing out what other really important issues there may be. And I do believe there are.

    Not the same as being ‘aggressive’ and ‘unsupportive’ which I am clearly not.

    In my experience with secondary and primary schools – there may be other issues, which need taking into account. As I have said.

    For one, and repeating a point. Possible bullying i.e someone taking away this child’s food.

    I have stated this plainly and I think it is important ,because it frequently happens. I don’t necessarily think, and there is no proof whatsoever that it is the mother’s fault on this one.

    We are operating on hearsay

    all best

    jj

    #35532 Report

    Hi all

    I wish to remind all users that we have guidelines which the forum operates by.  Its important that all users keep the forum a safe place for single parents to connect and share experiences.  Please be aware that I will now be closing this thread due to the hostile nature of the discussion.

    Kind regards, Justine

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