My now ex partner moved out on Sunday just gone- yep 1 week before Xmas. He has a bad temper, is impatient, moody and gets angry very quickly. He engages with adults and our daughter -5 by taking the Micky and winding up. I believe he has been emotionally abusing me for several years now, I withdrew I suppose affection wise and he says I never accepted him. He has been impatient & short tempered and mean with daughter: examples saying serves you right when she was jumping on the bed & fell off. Pushing her out of the way when they were practising the floss dance together cos he wanted a turn and she wanted to show him her dancing. Recently not carrying her hat and gloves with him as she refused to wear them. Winding her up verbally then she pushes him physically cos she doesn’t have the vocabulary to argue back. She is learning to be argumentative and generally aggy from this man, never mind the confusion of him now not being here, he also put his face right in my face and punched me in he rib when I was holding her a few months back. He is insisting that he has her 1 night / wk, staying at his dads and his sister and her kids will also be around. I’m sick to my stomach at having to hand my daughter over to this monster- do I have a leg to stand on with refusing the 1 night. He will also only pay the bare min child maintenance, has left me with an unfinished house( was a renovation project as he is a builder) a £1400 mortgage. I work but he is refusing to pay a penny more towards e.g after school club. I’m devastated, sick with worry and just really sad that HE left me after treating me like shit & my future has just even dashed away. He ticks a lot of the narcissist boxes.