My partner has met someone new on nights out and is phasing me out of her life. She insists we go to counselling but its going downhill and always ends with her saying ive been neglectful and too busy to care. I work alot to be fair and have had recent stress. Ive paid all the major bills for a decade or so. Maybe we have grown apart but shes not willing to save or work on it and is very child focused now as a trio without me.
We own our home and have 2 young kids. Most things are tied up and agreed jointly.
What should i be doing as a first step to protect myself? Google is ok but taking with a pinch of salt!