Recently separated from my wife and working on becoming a better person as I don’t have high esteem or feelings for myself. My goal was to get into a better place and then fight for my marriage. However, last night I found out that she is carrying on with one of my best friends. I’m now left with 2 wonderful daughters and working as a Dinner Lady as I need to have school holidays etc at home.
Any advice on how to carry on would be greatly appreciated.
Neil, so sorry you are faced with this. It’s horrible.
but I guess the only way to go is to separate the two. You want to be a better person to be a great dad for your kids and for your own self respect. Concentrate on that. Focus on making their Xmas as good as possible and take pride in that.
Either your wife will realise what she’s lost or someone else will see you being a great dad. Or both 😊