Please help… I am sat at 5am thinking about why my wife does not love me and indeed why she has done the things she has done to me over the last few weeks.
I have found things on social media which I was not meant to see that were very hurtful and distressing she has turned in to this person who I know longer know and it seems the only focus in here life is the job and me and my son have took a back seat
right now I feel so chewed up and not sure if I will ever feel ok in myself again after this experience and been married 18 years.
I have lost a big part of me in all this esp over the last four weeks, due to finances and son I am stopping in our family home don’t have a lot of choice and this seems to be the story of the last 4 weeks and possibly beyond.
Hope you are feeling a bit better now. Things can seem worse at those quiet times like 5am.
God knows why/how people can change so much and you don’t even recognise them anymore and they can do things to you that you would never have expected possible, but they can and they do. You are not alone, unfortunately it does happen. Don’t let it completely knock your confidence. It is often what is happening for the other person not necessarily a reflection on you.