new member here from Liverpool just wanted to say happy Father’s Day to all us single mummy’s and daddy’s who try our best everyday with our kids, days like this are hard in my house especially since this is the first Father’s Day my kids haven’t been with there dad (he left us all 4 months ago) hope you all have had a wonderful day and take a nice long deserved bath tonight as we know that’s all we want to do 🙂
Me too and I get on very well with the ex. It’s upsetting because I put more than enough effort in for mother’s day as you should be made to feel special for everything you do. I tried to explain it to my daughter but it only seemed to come out as Mum is very selfish (not my words).
all of your soul is screaming “why should I defend this person” but you need to care for them as the Mum/dad of your children. Do it for them.
Ahh empty, sending hugs your way stay positive I wish my kids dad thought of the kids the way you do yours, he hasn’t seen them since the day he left my kids are 6 and 3 so I’m hoping it gets easier for them I’ve begged and begged but got nowhere so I can’t do much else just be there for my kids, it doesn’t seem to be getting easier but I’m hoping one day it will I feel like I’ve failed them everyday because of it x