Going through a separation and hoping……

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    Dpsebast
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    My wife told me she wanted to separate two weeks ago and she hasn’t changed her mind and won’t be changing her mind. In my deluded world I think there is a chance. I guess as long as we are under the same roof I might continue to think that way. The reality is that I need to move out and accept what has happened.

    moving out is not so simple as my parents are an hour drive and not realistic to be that far as we have children and I want to be close to them to share responsibility for their care. To rent is very expensive and not much available in the close vicinity.

    As I don’t have a network to fall on for child support I need to be close to the children and their schooling and friends. My wife would like me to be further from her, but I have said no. Am I being unfair?  If I’m too far I will fail as I do work full time.

    anyway, I just wanted to share my dilemma.  Thanks for listening

     

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    Alexx
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    You sound like a very decent dad to me and you don’t sound unfair at all, you stay close to your children wether the mother likes it or not, your staying close for them not her, so continue to do what you must for your children

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    Dpsebast
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    Thanks Alexx. Who knew it would be this complicated!!

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