Girl is pesterering me for money

[Mattlostatsea]

Hi, wonder if anyone could help. I had a one night stand with a girl 2 years ago, she said she was on the pill but turns out she wasn’t on the pill…. So she sent me a text a month after the night saying she was pregnant, I sent her loads of messages and got no reply..so I presumed it was a wind up, she got in touch about a year later saying she wants money for her daughter, I met up with them once for about 2 hours for an afternoon out but heard no more, she’s been in touch again saying she wants money for her daughter, I have given her about £150 so far just to shut her up.  But where do I stand with this, I’m not on the birth certificate etc, I’m not sure if she’s mine or not to be honest, I’ve worked out the dates and it works out that she could well be mine, she says she’s my daughter.  Help,do I tell my family and pay her a set amount of money just to let things lie or just ignore her, she said she will go through CSA though. Thanks

[Mattlostatsea]

Hi. Yes I have a partner and children, this happened before I was with my partner, should I keep paying her though?

[Empty]

Get a DNA test first! If she is yours, you can’t just be paying money without access rights and you need it legally recognised.

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<span style=”color: #1a1919; font-family: Lato, sans-serif; background-color: #fbfbfb;”>Anonymous – “Maintenance and contact are different issues. Children sent pay per view.” Not quite sure what you mean by this – of course they are different. I was pointing out that if she is not his he shouldn’t have to pay and if she is and he is paying he has leverage to see her.</span>

• This reply was modified 8 months, 3 weeks ago by Jordan Gingerbead.

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