I’m so sorry your feelings haven’t been validated. I’ve just read all the comments on here and I understand you wanted to vent your fears and frustrations rather than ask for advice.
There are always two sides to a story and yours is just as valid as your ex’s – doesn’t matter who ended the relationship. It’s over and both parties have to deal with it in their own way. I don’t think anyone really knows what to expect when their relationship ends! But he sounds like he’s in a very different place to you and that’s so hard!! For now all you can do is look after yourself and your daughter without his input, maybe one day he will be willing to do things together but if you stress out about it you will only be causing yourself harm and that’s not worth it! I’m only 9months into my seperation /divorce and I naively thought it would be easier by now if anything it’s harder but nothing can last forever and I have to believe that one day I will wake up and actually feel happy and not anxious or stressed or frustrated!!!
I think Anonymous was just trying to give you an unbiased view/advice of your situation but that’s not really what you wanted. Not very tactful and it could have been worded slightly differently maybe!! But try not to take it to heart everyone has an opinion just hard to hear when you are hurting and needing support rather than an objective opinion!
Hi Cam75, 12 months ago I left an abusive ex and I went through being upset to being angry and just crying because I was so angry. My ex is the same he wants nothing to do with our children and has basically just disappeared out of their lives. At first was really hard to deal with as no matter what I thought of my ex I wanted him to step up and be a dad. Now I can see the situation is a lot better for the children and we are just fully embracing our new life, I still have bad days where I want to just cry or feel cross, but they are getting a lot less now.
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