so I’ve had months of litigation over contact for my baby, I won’t make this a long drawn out post but to highlight what’s happened so anyone if possible can add any advice or comments I’d be so grateful to hear
short marriage. He leaves after baby born (12 weeks at the time)
he has a long long history of massive alcohol abuse.
he seeks access – that’s fine – he is the dad after all. However, she’s tiny (now 10 months old) and breastfed.
i allow two full days a week.
he pushes for more and more access over the months. I still feel two days is a good start until she’s older – is this wrong? I feel is a good amount.
he takes her without prior permission overnight!
I stopped all contact.
he hadn’t seen baby in 8 weeks, then had contact centre two weeks ago which was awful. He published a huge huge rant on social media calling me a bad mother and how could I put a baby through a contact centre –
i did as he broke my trust.
so I stopped contact once again.
Court is next week. I’m so nervous! I wholeheartedly feel I’m doing what’s right for our child, utimately I know he will get over nights and I’m prepared to introduce a night a week nearer summer. But I’m being bullied and gas lighted too.
im fully aware this is about the child not me, she’s my only priority here.
Any advise is so welcomed please
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