Four years ago i gave birth to our son, we seperated during pregnancy after finding out he was trying to cheat. He missed the birth by minutes but was there from day 1 with weekly contact for 4 years. He then chose to stop seeing our son the moment he found out my baby had been born. This was 8 months ago. No contact, ignored all my attempts of communication. no support. now he is trying to say my son is not his just so he doesnt have to contribute financially. My son is the image of him and he knows full well there is no way he isnt. Im heart broken he can treat him so bad
A bit confusing – you mean you have a new baby with a new partner? A court will endorse a DNA test via CAFCASS and ensure he keeps up payments to the first child (if I got that right?) Sounds like he thinks you have a new partner therefore he has no further financial “burden”. Which of course, isn’t true.
Sorry, yes we got on up until the point of new partner which then led to him stopping payments, constantly gave verbal abuse, messed around with the routine he had seeing our son etc. He saw our son a few days before my baby was born but then never saw our son again. Hes always been controling and like 2 different people especially after a drink. I dont know whats going on in his head maybe its that he has no control over me any more i dont know. Im just so annoyed he can treat our son the way he has. Im lost on what to tell our son when he ask about daddy.