Hello , Feeling sad today my little girl turned 7 yesterday filled the day with fun love and excitement for her but I was crying inside . My husband left in January has had several women paraded all over social media and moved in with a woman and her three daughters at the start of lockdown , he has had no contact with our two daughters at all , in the start he screamed I let them go for the day told me wasn’t my business where or who with but I didn’t feel that was in their best interests . He has called the police on me Three times , twice to say I was harassing him ( nothing came of that ) and then to complain he wasn’t happy I wasn’t charged now he’s decided I was controlling and coercive throughout the marriage but he’s been gone since January nothing came of that either , our daughter’s have had no maintenance at all despite there being an agreement through CMS , nothing came for our daughter yesterday not even a card I sailed through the best I could but it’s me that feels like I’m dieing . I have applied for a C100 and Iam now waiting for this through the courts , how do I get through this ? The pain is so intense , how could he do this to our family ?
Hi, that is awful. So sorry for your daughter as I’m sure she will have noticed even if she didn’t mention it. I have a little girl (4yrs) and she means so much to me. I don’t pretend to be the most amazing dad in the world but I try my best to make sure she knows how much I love. Lets hope he comes to his senses before he makes their relationship irreparable. Must be hard for you too, if he has moved on and wants to flaunt it so much I don’t understand why he still feels the need to make life hard for you. Some men have some strange ideas of how to behave. If you need to talk I would be happy to listen. Hope you’re ok as can be x
It’s been emotionally draining , your little girl is lucky to have you in her life , that’s all I have ever wanted for my own two but sadly their dad only puts his own needs forward , it’s only now that I have been able to sit and evaluate everything he put us through that I realize I have been the victim here before he left to create this amazing new life he continues to flaunt on FB , Iam pleased to read Iam not the only one who thinks his behaviour is only damaging any relationship he could have been having with the girls .