Feeling really low after separation

[Tra08Participant]

Hi I’m new on here! Just wanted to talk. I have a 4 year old and 2 week old. After yet another argument, my partner has ended it, blamed everything on me, walked out!  He believes in all these conspiracy theories and I don’t, he doesn’t want the baby vaccines and I do, he shouts and gets angry, I avoid any discussions about this so there won’t be arguments between us but he always brings it up, it’s like he wants to cause an argument to walk out! He turns everything around on me. He’s even started telling the 4 year old that the planes in the sky are dropping chemicals on us and poisoning us and they are bad! Maybe it’s best we are not together but it doesn’t stop it hurting! I’m a mess and can’t stop crying. Don’t know what to do!

[RamblinjonParticipant]

Hiya, welcome to the forum.

Everything is raw for you at the moment but it will get better I promise you. Just take each day as it comes and eventually you will find the pain weakens until it’s just a memory.

It sounds as though your ex has some serious issues so it would seem to me that in the long run your going to be better off without him.

As for immunisations I totally agree with you, all the science out there points to them being a good thing, don’t let you ex’s delusions put your little one at risk.

Keep your chin up, your going to be ok.

Mark

[Sarah7Participant]

Hello

Is your partner in the army or was?

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