I’ve just joined. My partner and i were together for nearly 8 years and we have 2 kids together. The younest is only 3 months old. He left us yesterday and is staying at his mums. I don’ know what to do with myself, I feel numb but also a strange sense of relief like a huge weight has been lifted because we weren’t happy- we tried to be but it just wasn’t working.
I don’t have any friends around me really and my family don’t really speak about feelings so I’m a bit lost and feeling very sad and lonely right now
Cheating is the worst and i had all the abuse on fb but mutual freinds who knew me knew the truth and sure it was the same for you.i too had abuse from her parents but just ignored it.don’t let them get to you😊
It will get better and keeping yourself busy helps.prioritise your bills and regards access mediation is a good start.feel free to pm if you need any advice as was in your position and it will get better😊
Honestly it took a while for the sick feeling to go away while i tried to come to terms with my wife’s adultery.which is why i kept busy to stop thinking about it.try it as it works and try to get out and about when possible rather than be at home😊
We had an agreement in place for access at the beginning and it was going well and then his parents got involved and also he decided his social life was and is more important than his 2 boys just be careful and don’t make the mistake I did which was to give into his demands children obviously need routine and I was gaulable and the access turned out to be to suit him we ended up at mediation and tbh I feel it’s still to suit his social life rather than what the children need and want as he’s cut down his access off his own back I didn’t have anything to do with his suggestion.