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    Tee.x
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    Hi,

    I’ve just joined. My partner and i were together for nearly 8 years and we have 2 kids together. The younest is only 3 months old. He left us yesterday and is staying at his mums. I don’ know what to do with myself, I feel numb but also a strange sense of relief like a huge weight has been lifted because we weren’t happy- we tried to be but it just wasn’t working.

     

    I don’t have any friends around me really and my family don’t really speak about feelings so I’m a bit lost and feeling very sad and lonely right now

    #7804 Report

    Rich
    Participant

    Cheating is the worst and i had all the abuse on fb but mutual freinds who knew me knew the truth and sure it was the same for you.i too had abuse from her parents but just ignored it.don’t let them get to you😊

    #7805 Report

    Rich
    Participant

    Hi tee, i’m richard and i was feeling how you are now when i seperated from my wife.if you need someone to listen or rant at then feel free.it worked for me.

    #7807 Report

    Tee.x
    Participant

    Thanks Rich.

     

    I guess I just want someone to tell me things will get better.

    At the moment all I’ve got swimming around in my head is how I’m going to pay for bills on my own and how everything is going to work regarding access etc.  🙁

    #7809 Report

    Rich
    Participant

    It will get better and keeping yourself busy helps.prioritise your bills and regards access mediation is a good start.feel free to pm if you need any advice as was in your position and it will get better😊

    #7835 Report

    Tee.x
    Participant

    Thank you.

    I’m hoping it won’t come to mediation and that we can keep things amicable.

     

    When does the horrible feeling in your stomach go away? :/

    #7836 Report

    Billy01
    Participant

    I know the feeling! I just sit browsing Facebook once my son is in bed as I don’t enjoy TV and I don’t have any friends :/

    #7837 Report

    Rich
    Participant

    Happy to chat billy when you feel isolated😊

    #7838 Report

    Rich
    Participant

    Honestly it took a while for the sick feeling to go away while i tried to come to terms with my wife’s adultery.which is why i kept busy to stop thinking about it.try it as it works and try to get out and about when possible rather than be at home😊

    #7839 Report

    H
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    Tee.x

    We had an agreement in place for access at the beginning and it was going well and then his parents got involved and also he decided his social life was and is more important than his 2 boys just be careful and don’t make the mistake I did which was to give into his demands children obviously need routine and I was gaulable and the access turned out to be to suit him we ended up at mediation and tbh I feel it’s still to suit his social life rather than what the children need and want as he’s cut down his access off his own back I didn’t have anything to do with his suggestion.

     

     

    #7840 Report

    H
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    Rich

    I must admit I struggle to ignore it as there always so hurtful in what they say. Most of his family i still see and are very supportive I guess it just takes time for the abuse to stop

    #7845 Report

    Billy01
    Participant

    Thanks rich, I’m always happy to chat to anyone here. As I say I literally don’t have friends anymore so conversation is always nice! Any of you feel free to message me if you need or want to

    #7848 Report

    Kelkeepgoing
    Participant

    I too am lonely and fed up . 36 from Leicester where are you all from ?

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    galagirl
    Participant

    https://chat.whatsapp.com/7kdhlTSyL7h9lUvCv2EJcy

     

    Hi all

     

    I’m setting up a WhatsApp group for any and all single parents, just so when you are sat there and the loneiness or boredom kicks in, you can reach out for a bit more of an instant ‘reply

     

    There’s only a couple of us at the moment but all and everyone are welcome

    Link above

    Thanks

    Amanda

    #7854 Report

    Empty
    Participant

    Thanks Rich – how did a decent guy end up in this place? What more do some people want?

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