Hey, I’ve been there too just my children were a bit older. Also we used to live together during separation as well so I was seing him every day. It was very painful as every day I had to do everything around kids day and night except fridays afternoon because he said he is tired and he can only do 4 hours childcare a week! I would have understand that if he was i dont know a miner, or even a post man but no. He was working in an office, keying invoices, from 9 till 3, it’s not even a bloody full time. Later on same year I’ve meet love of my life and we have a beautiful baby boy together. My partner does everything now as in helps me with children, all 3 of them and treats me like a proper woman. Couldn’t be happier. So after hell of a storm I see this gorgeous rainbow and I believe you’ll be the same. Who knows maybe you guys will work things out somehow. I wish you all the best x