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    Dbircher
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    My husband of 16 years left a month ago and moved straight in with his girlfriend.  All I know about her is from her Facebook page and it is one post after another of swearing, comments about sucking d@#k, and pictures of her on bed with my husband. If I think it would be harmful to my son to meet her what can I do to stop my ex taking him to meet her? My son is 10 years old and devastated by the separation.

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    SOLOMUMMY
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    Legally your ex has the same responsibility as you. However he can interpret situations differently to you such as who can be around your child.

    Unless the woman is a safeguarding risk you cannot stop what he opts to do.

    You’d be best to try and maintain a relationship between your son and ex. Not blaming the ex for the situation as that could result in alienating them.

    I would try talking to your ex seeing if he’ll  agree to not introduce them ATM.

    Fwiw I wouldn’t be looking at social media as it isn’t healthy for you.

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