hi please read all info and give me you 100% true honest opinion
my wife and I have separated in June and had a holiday booked from October (year before), the holiday is going to my family villa that my children (5 & 3) have been to many times (5 year old 10 times and 3 year old about 7). We as a family have made this a yearly program with my parents. Our next holiday is booked for October 2019. First my wife said the reason for my children not being aloud to go is and I quote “I don’t think I (my wife) can handle the boys away from me for 1 week. After me saying that this is unreasonable for her to say this and now she her next excuse is my eldest starts a new school in September 6 weeks before you go and he needs to adjust to that first before you take them away also stating that the boys need there mum. I will also add that mum has been told she can come if she wishes but will not (I understand that). My wife has also request that we as a family do not mention The holiday to the children as it’s unfair to build hopes up.
I have offered to call/FaceTime as many times that’s needed.