Hey so I’m a single mum of 2 beautiful boys, my oldests dads never been in his life and my youngests dad has him 2-3 nights a week, he’s recently asked for 50/50 from aged 18 months but he’s planning on moving an hour from me and this will effect quite a few things, the biggest thing being school, he’s only 13 months so its obviously ages away but I want him to go to school with his big brother and he’s pretty much saying no that he gets a choice in the school as well, but its not practical to expect me to do school runs to two different schools and he wants him at a school closer to where he will be living but that’s obviously not going to work for me, he says oh you can just put my oldest in before and after school clubs but they aren’t free and why should the boys have longer days because he’s decided to move, he said oh no his schools too far from mine he will be tired from the drive but every school not far from me is 50 min drive from the area he wants to move to, also alot of the time he’s at his he’s actually with either his mum or his gf as he’s a postman working 6 days a week and he’s being shipped from pillar to post between these two people for child care, I initially said yes to 50//50 but have really thought about it and it really will not work in this situation m, I’ve got mediation booked, but the thought of court and telling him no to 50/50 is causing me so much stress and anxiety, do I have a good case? So worried
due to the child’s age I think it’s unlikely court will grant 50/50, and because he lives further away and won’t be able to do school runs during the week. If he insists on working 6 days a week, then court will probably give him standard every other weekends, fri-sun, and possibly him seeing child for few hours mid-week, if he’s available for that.
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