Ex thinks I should still have my children stay during lockdown

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    Rob1626
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    Hi

    my ex thinks I should have my children to stay I currently am stopping at my gf we don’t live together but I spend a lot of time there.

    the rest of the time I stop at my mums

    my girlfriend has an asmatic son and is trying to protect him

    i see my children every 2 weekends

    one weekend at my mums

    the other at my girlfriends

    just after some advice please

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    Kathymumofone
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    How old are your children?  If they are missing you, then why would you not want to see them?

    As for going back and forth between your mum’s house and your gf’s house, as an adult, you are supposed to choose one household and stay there,  Why not stay permanently at your mum’s and have your children every other weekend as before?

    That would allow your children to see you, and protect everyone.

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    Rob1626
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    They are 4&8

    my mums 75 so probably not best to go there and has clearly said not to come

    im isolating at my girlfriends who’s has a son who is asmatic

    she doesn’t want to put him at risk

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    Kathymumofone
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    I can see why your ex might not be happy. Your kids are probably asking for their daddy, and you are prioritising someone else’s child.
    But if your mum doesn’t want them to stay, then you don’t have much choice.

    None of this is easy.  Can you take your kids out for their daily exercise so at least they get to see you regularly?

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