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    Charlie1985
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    My ex husband didn’t pay anything for 6 months during covid without even checking I was ok financially to look after the children.. he’s not had them overnight since a year past March and now I just can’t see a life for myself… even a few hours out to see a friend. The pressure to provide financially and make sure their education is going well, plus working full times is making me not live my best life. Is anyone else feeling like this due to covid situation?

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    Vbk2018
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    Mine was controlling and still is. If I see someone he approaches them and tells lies about me……his poor girlfriend, when he can’t let me go.

    He refuses to pay CSA as he can’t see me have money to go out.

    He’s done other stuff too but I completely understand your situation. I have no support as such, well very little as he isolated me even more from the few mates I had when we split up, spreading lies and a hate campaign for leaving him and breaking his heart (his words). So I must be eternally punished I guess, as years of physical and mental abuse wasent enough

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    Vbk2018
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    Mine was controlling and still is. If I see someone he approaches them and tells lies about me……his poor girlfriend, when he can’t let me go.

    He refuses to pay CSA as he can’t see me have money to go out. If I’m struggling financially how can I get my hair done, meet people etc

    He’s done other stuff too but I completely understand your situation. I have no support as such, well very little as he isolated me even more from the few mates I had when we split up, spreading lies and a hate campaign for leaving him and breaking his heart (his words). So I must be eternally punished I guess, as years of physical and mental abuse wasent enough

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    steve3334
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    hi,

    this is very common. I struggled big time at start of covid, lost jobs and been out of work. covid was weaponised and I was blocked from seeing kids, Court hearings going on at the time. so maintenance was last thing on my mind.

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