My husband left me last year stating he didn’t know what he wanted any more. We have 2 grown up sons and a 12 year old daughter.
He rented a 2 bedroomed house so that she could sleepover.
In 12 months he hasn’t had her sleep over once because ‘he can’t handle it’. He believes that he can see her whenever she wants as she’s old enough to decide for herself. Him looking after her while I’m at work is a favour to me. (He took voluntary redundancy before Xmas and isn’t working yet)
I have no life, I can’t make plans, I can’t even go out for a coffee during the school holidays without telling him who I’m meeting and how long I’ll be gone. He has refused to go to mediation.
My question is – do I put my foot down and stop him seeing our daughter while I go through the court process of do I let things continue the way they are?