Hi, I’m trying to stay strong and be on my own with my daughter after 2 years of his insistence of only staying at home 5 nights a week with us. He also kept the fact that he earnt alot of money all summer, and questioned as to why he should help with only half the rent and one bill. He never denied being a narcissist, probably because hes never really listened to my feelings and thoughts. I’m struggling to believe that this was a normal way of living, even though he has a daughter. I need to move as I believe he will be as he always has when he knows I have given up on him, he will be back. The things he has done now make me physically sick. Anybody know how I can get out of this house quickly, he gets very angry and aggressive.
If you are split up now and 100 % convinced you dont want him back and sort your relationship out is to make it clear to him after weekend he is not to come to your house. I am guessing he will be wanting to see his daughter though so you could arrange contact by meeting outside a local supermarket or somewhere with CCTV. If he doesnt listen to you and visits your address after making it clear hes not welcome you can get police to have a friendly word with him to start with to see if that will help.
I am guessing from what you wrote although could be wrong that you see him monday – friday and he vanishes every weekend. just where u put he only stays 5 nights a week