Ex husbands new address
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4 June 2018 at 4:25 pm #11833
My ex husband has just given me his moving date so I asked him for the address as our 2 boys will be staying overnight there but he is refusing to give it to me surely i have a right to know.
Thanks if anyone can help
H4 June 2018 at 9:10 pm #11838
you absolute have every right to know where your children will be staying. I’m currently in court on a number of issues re the children and the courts have said this is something my ex partner must divulge prior to the children leaving with him once contact is re-instated.4 June 2018 at 9:22 pm #11840
So how is best to ask him for it as he’s refused and told me I don’t have any right to know4 June 2018 at 9:50 pm #11843
Why is he refusing to tell you? What does he think you are likely to do with the information?
As long as there are no domestic violence issues (sorry to have to mention it but it does happen), you have every right to know where your children will be staying over night.
I briefly had the same issue but my ex did see sense eventually. Long term, if he won’t tell you, you may need to think about mediation and / or court. In the meantime, how do you get on with your children’s school? Does he ever pick them up from school and is he likely to have told the school where he lives? Is it worth having a chat with them? They might not be able to tell you but it may reassure you to know at least some one in authority knows where he is living? How about his family? Do you get on with them? If he won’t tell you directly, there may be ways round it, to put your mind at rest till either he sees sense or it’s dealt with via mediation or court.5 June 2018 at 5:17 am #11850
He is refusing to tell me because I named his gf in our divorce on the grounds of adultery which they both admitted my divorce was finalised in December! Seriously and he dragging it all back now.
He picks my youngest up from school a couple of nights a week I have a great relationship with the teachers they have been very supportive I was thinking of talking to them as I know they not allowed to tell me but they may explain to him how childish he is being. Alot of his family have cut him off and I’m still really close with but I asked his mum and get this apparantely she doesnt even know his new address yet like i believe that. We went to mediation this year and its wrote in the document that he is to tell me when and where and he thinks hes clever that hes given me the date and town and thats apparantely all i have the right to know.5 June 2018 at 7:45 am #11852
Anonymous would u be happy to let your children stay somewhere that you don’t know then? My children are 12 and 8 who have been told by there dad that they are not to tell there mum his address. I will not be letting them stay if I do not know where as he has already told me when he moves if he feels he wants to keep them for another night he will and return them when he wants it is not up to me I’m sorry but no1 has a contact arrangement like that5 June 2018 at 8:00 am #11854
I went on holiday last week I had to give him the address of the campsite or he said he would keep them and they wouldn’t be going so do u think if roll reversed and I was moving the town would be acceptable?5 June 2018 at 10:34 pm #11866
My 12 year old does yes but he won’t go against his dad and they are totally different when they are there with him they hardly speak to me they will phone to say goodnight but it’s hard work having a conversation as I can always hear him talking in the back ground loudly and my eldest says his dad goes through his phone every time he sees them reading any messages from me and my side of his family.
I only wanted it to know where my children are that is all. If I don’t tell him things it’s always followed by a threat so leaves me with no choice