Ex husband not sticking to court order
24 September 2019 at 1:15 pm #30654
Cut a very long story short. Been divorced for 5 years ex husband didn’t bother to see the children for a full year and then he decided to get a court order. Basically to exert his authority because he has never bothered to stick to it & he is always wanting to change it.
Both the children who are 10 and 7 absolutely hate going because he doesn’t interact with them doesn’t play with them and barely talks to them and just sits playing on the PlayStation.
Yet again he has sent a list of dates that he is unable to have the children. Bear in mind he only sees them once a fortnight as it is, although he should be having them for tea on the interim week but he’s s never bothered to do this.
Basically I’ve had enough now as the kids are stressed out when they have to go & hate going and he’s constantly changing the goalposts so there is zero consistency.
Can I go back to court with all this information and try to get something amended or even cancelled because it’s not fair on the children that they are put through this at their age to A. do something they don’t like doing and B. Not know what’s happening from one weekend to the next24 September 2019 at 1:36 pm #30667
This is awful for your kids 😔 personally I’d take him back to court.
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Mark24 September 2019 at 3:20 pm #30690
As you know in your heart of hearts, you could have gone back to court instantly in order to approach the fact that he is not sticking to the court order. You are being a very strong lioness sticking it out for as long as you have. You gave the situation a chance but it is progressively getting worse.
Little thought for the mind:
Another time-related consideration associated with the issue of child abandonment and custody is a custodial parent who routinely leaves the child for short and yet indefinite periods of time, without a valid reason. Although the custodial parent may leave the child for less than a day at a time, the cumulative amount of time and effect in the court’s mind may warrant a change of custody. legalbeagle.com
You stated that your ex-partner did not have contact for an entire year. I am no solicitor but across different countries in the world child abandonment is considered to be anywhere from 24hrs – 1 year. It is also a crime and am very shocked that dad managed to keep most of his rights yet still continues to abuse them. I say go with what you feel is right because you evidently tried to meet him in the middle
🙂24 September 2019 at 5:07 pm #30701
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