I left my husband last March, we grew apart due to his demanding job and never being at home and me resenting him because i do everything and am always on my own raising the children and working as well. I most definitely do not want to get back together with him but it was hard to learn he has met someone.
Thankfully we are reasonably civil and I’m happy for him and have wished him all the best, but i have no idea how to approach how we tell the kids and what ‘rules’ to set now that he has started seeing someone. We agreed that i would meet her before she is introduced to the kids. my eldest has had enough change this year, whilst he’s pretty resilient, i want to manage it well.